You're useless!

Congratulations to me!

:D

Due to the #feesmustfall strike I managed to take time off my studies and actually watch soapies (according to spell check, that word doesn’t exist. Probably the dictionary too but we use it in South Africa so eff it). Granted, I only watched the first few minutes of the latest episodes and got bored so I switched to a channel about removing blackheads instead (I’m weird, I know).

Anyway, there is something that I caught on Generations the Legacy. It was a scene of a woman and her father and they were discussing her husband’s fertility. According to her, his sperm is “useless”. Btw that means he’s infertile but that was just rude! I can accept the fact that some things don’t work out for people but to call them useless is just downright terrible. The word to me is like an insult.

For example, I have had my own experience with this particular insult. Back up story (in a summary), there was this guy who decided it was a good idea to call me that because I wouldn’t agree to sleeping with him. I mean, I totally get it. It must be frustrating to have such a burning urge to do something and not be able to do it, especially if you have someone/something for you but come on, we had barely been dating for a month and you had not really given me something to daydream about, i.e. you were not appealing.

Advice to the guys, if she’s potentially the right one and you want her to give herself to you willingly, stimulate her mind first. It’s a turn on.

Works with some girls anyway.

Where was i?

Oh yeah, I let him go because it was disrespectful.

So if everyone could stop using the word ‘useless’ unnecessarily please. That ish hurts like a…you get the picture. Imagine being told your sperms are useless. Gosh!

 Anyway this was just my short rant. Leave a comment down below, tell me how you feel.